Taking Time to Smell the Coffee

Taking Time to Smell the Coffee

I love coffee! There’s nothing like waking up in the morning and smelling a fresh pot of coffee brewing.
A couple of years ago, we were going through some rough times at our church. Life was pretty miserable. And every morning when I’d make my pot of coffee I would look at the stack of coffee filters and pray that our life would be better by the time the coffee filters ran out. It sounds kinda silly when I think about it now, but I knew there were 180 filters in the bag. If I make one pot of coffee per day then I hoped that our troubles would be over in less than 180 days. Every morning I would make my coffee and pray for time to move quickly. I remember the day that I used my last coffee filter. My husband came into the kitchen to find me crying.
“What’s wrong, Steph?”
“This is the last coffee filter,” I sobbed.
I’m sure he was quite confused with my emotions. He was probably thinking, “Well, just put it on the grocery list and we’ll buy some more…what’s the big deal?”
But to me it felt like God had not answered my prayers for rescue. It reminded me that it had been 180 days and life was still pretty miserable. I was depressed. I felt hopeless. The future lay before me as an endless number of days without purpose or direction.
Then Jeff bought me a Keurig coffee maker. You know, the kind that makes one cup at a time…and DOESN’T USE FILTERS?! I think he was trying to avoid another morning meltdown. But God used it to remind me that the future is in His hands. I am called to take things one day at a time and leave the future to Him. His promises remain true and He continues to answer prayer, even if it’s not in my time schedule. Life is less miserable now. God has not delivered me the way I wanted Him to, but He has brought hope and joy back into my life by reminding me that I need to live each day for Him instead of just enduring each day in order to move on to something I think is better.

“Because He lives I can face tomorrow… Because I know He holds the future…And life is worth the living just because He lives!”

So today I’m not fretting about the future. Today I’m sipping my coffee and enjoying the moments that God has given me today.

 

What’s In Your Purse?

What’s In Your Purse?

A 31 Purse consultant was also at the conference~ what cute products!

Last Saturday I had the privilege of speaking at a women’s conference in Henderson, Kentucky. It was hosted by the Lydia Circle Women’s Group of Greater Norris Chapel Baptist Church which does an amazing work in the community of Henderson. I was the first of four speakers and I was extremely nervous. I love communicating to groups and I speak in front of our church ever week to give some sort of announcement or to help transition between songs as I help lead worship. But this experience was totally different. I did not know most of the women in the audience personally and two of the other speakers were ministers frequently called on to preach. I am married to a preacher, but I am not one myself. I would fall under the category of teacher or even “dramatic humorist” but never “preacher”. But God worked anyway. The following is the message He gave me to present to the ladies at the conference. Their theme was “What’s In Your Purse?” and I was given the honor of speaking about having a PERSONAL relationship with Christ!

I started by pulling various objects out of my purse and talking about the significance of each one:

  • Cell Phone: This helps me stay connected
  • Wallet: With this I can get everything I need
  • Tylenol: This takes away pain
  • Lipstick: Makes me feel beautiful (My Nanny says to never go anywhere without your lipstick in place!)
  • Tide Stick: Removes stains
  • Knife: Provides protection and makes me feel safe (even though I really only use it to open boxes)
  • Chocolate kiss: A little something sweet to pick me up when I’m feeling down and remind me that I am loved

It’s so good to have a purse that contains everything that I need. Having a personal relationship with Christ does much the same thing.

“His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness.” 2 Peter 1:3

Jesus is everything that I need for life and godliness!

He is my Provider (wallet)

“And my God shall supply all your needs according to His riches in glory.” Philippians 4:19

I shared my story here about God’s miraculous provision.

He is my Pain-Reliever (Tylenol)

“He will wipe away every tear from their eyes. Death will no longer exist; grief, crying, and pain will exist no longer.” Rev. 21:4

One day all our pain and suffering will be over! God will take it all away! But until then He makes this promise:

“The LORD is near to the broken-hearted and saves those whose spirits are crushed.” Psalm 34:18

He is my Beautifier (lipstick)

“Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who fears the LORD shall be praised.” Proverbs 31:30

I like to say that “mascara runs and lipstick rubs off but a woman who honors God with her life is TRULY beautiful!

He is my Protector (knife)

“For our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world powers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavens.” Ephesians 6:12

“You are from God, little children, and you have conquered them, because greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world!” 1 John 4:4

He is my Stain Remover (Tide stick)

David, after his sin with Bathsheba, cried out to God saying: “Have mercy on me, Oh God, because of Your unfailing love. because of Your great compassion, blot out the stain of my sin. Wash me clean from my guilt. Purify me from my sin.” Psalm 51

Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Romans 8:1

Because of Jesus’ death on the cross we can rejoice singing “My sin, oh the bliss of this glorious thought! My sin, not in part but the whole, is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more! Praise the Lord! Praise the Lord, oh my soul!”

Having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ fills us with His power. He is the One who gives us everything we need for life and godliness. Just like we feel lost when we leave our house without our purse…not having a personal relationship with Christ makes us truly lost and lacking in all good things. We all need a personal relationship with Christ. I don’t mean that we need to try to be good or join a church or repeat a prayer. We don’t need to just be religious or moral people. We need to know Christ personally, to give our lives completely to Him and recognize that He is everything that we need.

In order to have that kind of personal relationship with Christ, the Bible says all we have to do is call on Him (cell phone).

“For everyone who calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved.” Romans 10:13

Admit that you need Him:

“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23

“For the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” Romans 6:23

Believe on Him to save you:

“Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved.” Acts 16:31

“If you confess with your mouth, Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” Romans 10:9-10

Rejoice in your salvation!

Therefore, since we have been declared righteous by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. We have also obtained access through Him by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God.” Romans 5:1-2

My personal relationship with Jesus is such an integral part of my life now that I don’t know what I would do without Him! He is my Protector and my Provider. He is my strength when I am weak and my peace when I can’t sleep. He is my Counselor, my Comforter, and my Best Friend. He heals my pain, washes away my guilt and shame and makes me beautiful inside and out. He picks me up when I’m feeling down and reminds me that I am loved. He is everything I need, more than I could hope for, and all that I want. He is my Savior and my God. That’s my Jesus. I pray that He is your’s, too!

Consulting my notes at the Lydia Circle women's conference 2012 :)

Easter Truth

Easter Truth

I love teaching the Bible. No other book has such truth and power! It’s definitely more interesting to teach than math and more life-changing than grammar or spelling (though I truly believe that had the original manuscripts been in English, God would have included instructions on the correct usage of their, there, & they’re…just sayin’) But I digress…

Although teaching the Bible to people of various ages is one of my favorite things, I do not currently teach a Sunday school class. I know. I’m a slacker. Actually, teaching takes a lot of my time and energy throughout the week and because I’m usually busy doing other things in the church, I let others fill those roles in order to alleviate some stress in my life.

Well, wouldn’t you know it…during the most stressful Sunday of the year- Easter- one of our Sunday school teachers was absent and I had to teach the lesson! I was excited but also rather perturbed. A Sunday school lesson for an adult class takes a lot of time and preparation. Add that extra time and energy to a day already filled with sunrise service, special music, a baptism, and a creative presentation involving paint and it makes for a very stressful Sunday!

But God gave me peace when He reminded me that His Word is a powerful tool, and that my only job was to present His Word. He would take care of the rest. So, I threw out the book we normally use and decided to present a lesson on the Truth of the Resurrection. I’m sharing the outline with you here in case you ever find yourself teaching a class on the spur of the moment during Easter… :)

The Truth About the Resurrection

I.     What Do We Know?

A. Jesus really did die (Some argue that Jesus just fainted on the cross and the cool air of the tomb revived Him)

Jn. 19:30-35, Mk. 15:42-44

B. Jesus was buried (Some argue that the women & disciples went to the wrong tomb)

Lk. 23:53, Mt. 27:57-66

C. Jesus rose again bodily (Some argue that it was only Jesus’ ghost or spirit or “shroud” that was seen)

Mt. 28:1-15, Lk 24:9-12, Jn. 20:19-29

II. How Do we Know these facts are True?

A. Scripture 1. Cor. 15:3-8, 1 Cor. 15:12-19

B. Testimony of Eye Witnesses Jn. 21:1-14, 24; Acts 2:22-24

C. Changed Lives & Willing Martyrs Acts 2:38-42, 4:13-14; Acts 7:54-60

III. So What? Why Are These Truths Important to Us?

A. Sin (Because of Jesus’ resurrection sin has no power over us)     Rom. 6:1-11

B. Death (Because of Jesus’ resurrection death is not a threat) 1 Cor. 15:54-57

C. Life (We live by the same power that raised Christ from the dead!) 2 Cor. 13:4, Phil. 3:10, Gal. 2:19-20

D. Hope (Because of Jesus’ resurrection, we have hope for the future) 1 Thes. 4:13-14

As a side note: I love getting dressed up on Easter! It comes from my childhood when we would get a new dress every Easter, and we’ve carried that tradition on with our girls. Here are a few of my favorite pics from Easters past… my camera is broken and I am waiting for my mother-in-law to send me the pics she took this year. Until then, hope you enjoy this lesson and these pictures! :)

Family Easter picture 1985ish
I'm the "happy" one in the middle :)

Family Easter 2011
Being silly is more fun when you're dressed up! :)

So what is something you love about Easter? Any special traditions or memories? Feel free to share here: